Therapeutically-Informed Divorce Mediation

Emotional Support + Practical Agreements for Couples

Divorce is more than legal—it’s emotional, relational, and life-changing.

With Therapeutically-Informed Divorce Mediation*, I blend my expertise as a licensed therapist and experienced mediator to guide you and your partner through this transition with empathy, clarity, and structure.

You’ll receive the emotional support you need to process the experience, while crafting co-parenting plans, asset division agreements, and communication strategies—all in collaboration with a trusted attorney who ensures your legal documents are sound.

This is not just paperwork—it’s a pathway to your next chapter.

A Compassionate Approach to Divorce

Divorce doesn’t have to mean conflict, courtroom battles, or emotional scars. With mediation, you and your partner can collaborate to create a separation plan that honors your shared history, prioritizes your children, and helps you both move forward with dignity.

I’m Susan Regan, MFT—a licensed therapist and experienced mediator. I specialize in guiding California couples through the emotional, practical, and relational aspects of divorce, while partnering with trusted family law attorneys to ensure that legal agreements are sound and enforceable.

Whether you’re ready to separate or still unsure, I offer a flexible, supportive space where you can explore your options, shift focus as needed, and take the steps that feel right for you.

My Role as Your Mediator

As a licensed therapist and mediator, my role goes beyond logistics. I focus on:

Emotional support: Helping you both manage the complex feelings that arise during divorce—grief, anger, fear, or uncertainty.
Facilitating communication: Ensuring each partner feels heard and respected throughout the process.
Crafting co-parenting plans that work in real life—not just on paper.

Partnering with an attorney: Once we’ve built the framework of your agreements, I collaborate with a trusted family law attorney who handles the legal drafting, asset division, and filing—ensuring your agreements are legally sound and enforceable.

What is Divorce Mediation?

Mediation is a collaborative process where a neutral third party (the mediator) helps you and your partner reach agreements on important issues like:

Division of assets and debts
Parenting plans and schedules
Communication guidelines for co-parenting
Emotional closure and next steps for both partners

Unlike court proceedings, mediation is private, less costly, and empowers you both to make decisions that work for your unique family—not a judge.

The Divorce Mediation Process: Step-by-Step

1) Free 15-Minute Consultation

We’ll discuss your situation, answer your questions, and explore whether mediation is the right fit.

2) Individual Intake Sessions (1:1 with each partner)

I meet with each of you separately to understand your concerns, goals, and emotional readiness.

3) Joint Mediation Sessions

We collaborate on the key issues:
- Parenting plans, schedules, holidays
- Division of assets and debts (with attorney support)
- Communication agreements for smoother co-parenting
- Focused on progress at your pace.

4) Legal Document Preparation

Once agreements are reached, I bring in a partner attorney to:
- Draft the legal documents (e.g., Marital/Mediated Settlement Agreement)
- Ensure compliance with your state’s laws
- File with the court if needed

5) Optional Follow-Up Support

After legal filing, we can schedule check-ins to revisit the parenting plan or address new challenges.

Flexible, Tailored Support—Shift Between Mediation, Therapy, and Discernment Counseling

Not sure you’re ready for divorce? Or finding that emotional issues need more attention before continuing mediation?

One of the unique aspects of working with me is flexibility:

If you need time to process emotions, we can pause mediation and engage in therapy sessions.
If you’re uncertain about separating, we can shift to Discernment Counseling—a structured process to explore whether to stay together or part ways.

I stay with you, adapting the approach to meet your changing needs. This ensures you’re emotionally prepared for each step and that your decisions are thoughtful and informed.

Why Choose Mediation with Susan Regan?

25+ years as a therapist and mediator
Focused on emotional healing and practical solutions
Partnered with attorneys for seamless legal support
Personalized guidance—you’re never just a case file
Online sessions available across the United States*
Flexible process that adapts to your needs—shift between therapy, discernment counseling, and mediation as your situation evolves
Child-centered focus—ensuring parenting plans and communication strategies support your children’s well-being long-term

FAQs

Q: Do we have to agree on everything before starting mediation?
No. Many couples start with disagreements. Mediation is designed to help you find common ground, with my guidance.

Q: What if emotions are too high to mediate?
We can pause mediation and focus on therapy or discernment counseling as needed. This flexibility ensures the process works for you.

Q: How does the attorney partnership work?
I focus on the emotional and relational aspects. Once we’ve crafted the core agreements, I bring in a family law attorney who prepares the legal documents and ensures they meet California’s legal requirements.

Q: Do you work with clients throughout the United States?
*My divorce mediation services are available in AZ, CA, CO, FL, GA, IL, MA, MI, NC, NV, NY, OH, OR, PA, TN, TX, VA, & WA, but I offer relationship coaching to clients nationwide.

Is Divorce Mediation Right for You?

Mediation works best when:
- Both partners are willing to collaborate (even if there’s conflict)
- You want to stay out of court and maintain control over your decisions
- Children are involved, and you want to minimize conflict for their well-being
- You’re looking for emotional support, not just legal paperwork

Ready to Take the First Step?

Let’s explore whether divorce mediation is right for you. You don’t need to know all the answers yet—just be open to the process.

Schedule Your Free 15-minute Inquiry Call

Online Support

I also offer online support groups, talks, and courses to help you gain clarity, and insight — and develop the tools for all of your relationship needs.