By Susan Regan, MFT
There is something called the law of choice where we have the ability to take responsibility and choose new interpretations that empower when trying to heal from divorce. We can take back aspects of ourselves that we have projected onto our mate. We can observe what self-defeating behavior we’ve displayed and how to react without this self-defeating behavior. How do we respond to different situations? The pain from the past and the fear of the future often keeps us stuck and unable to develop all aspects of our lives. Our blurred vision prohibits us from being in the present moment and opening up to higher levels of awareness. Only when we have the courage to face things as they are without self-deception does a light develop out of these events and the path of success begins to be recognizable.